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Hi Vanessa,
I too have very loving fur babies of the feline species 🙂 They don’t care what I look like as long as they get their cuddle time in 🙂 My goal is to lose around 100lbs. If more, great!
My mother is my “debbie-downer”, we live in separate states but still talk quite frequently on the phone. Even though she is no skinny minny herself (only weighs about 60 less than me), I continuously hear about how I need to get this weight off, how miserable I must be, etc. Unfortunately I have heard this all my life and I have not been heavy all my life. So I told her I was going to be starting this lifestyle change when my order arrives. Her comment “oh that will be great if you stick to it. Then maybe you will do something about your hair” … really?!?! lol I am 47 and have long hair and she says middle-aged women don’t look good with long hair …
I have learned to let most of it go in one ear and out the other, but when she is saying this stuff around my husband or my children I start really feeling conscientious about myself.
So good luck to all of us because we are all already beautiful people 🙂